Books

BOOKS

Books by Joan Kloth-Zanard and PAS Intervention

Books written by Joan T. Kloth-Zanard & PAS-Intervention
Where Did I Go Wrong? How Did I Miss The Signs?
Dealing with Hostile Parenting and Parental Alienation (2nd Edition)
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Where Did I Go Wrong? How Did I Miss The Signs? is a prevention and intervention resource tool for parents, courts, attorney's, counselors, agencies and anyone else who needs help with high conflict divorce and relationships. From start to finish, this book talks about divorce, marriage, hostile aggressive parenting during and after a divorce, how to deal with this, and help the children to thrive. From cover to cover, this book is filled with information to help stop the snowball affect of high conflict divorce, hostile aggressive parenting, all of which leads to the psychological abuse of the children by destroying their relationship with one of their parents or another relative. It is the hope that this book can help prevent this abuse from happening and help these families to move forward in a healthy, positive and successful way. All proceeds from this book go to PAS Intervention, a Federally Tax-Exempt charitable organization approved to accept deductible contributions under Sec. 501(c)(3) of the IRS.

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Broken Family Bonds: Poems and Stories From Victims Of Parental Alienation (2nd Edition) HardCover or Ebook
Parental Alienation is psychological abuse when one parent deliberately destroys the relationship between the children and the other parent or grandparent. This book is dedicated to all the families who suffer from the abuse of Parental Alienation. PAS is a form of domestic violence perpetrated using psychological abuse. The stories and poems are real. The people are real. The hurt and anger are real. Let’s not forget this and work to intervene early with prevention and intervention so we can stop PAS from harming any more families. To have your story added to the next edition of this book, please email your story in word document toTellUrStoryPoem@PAS-Intervention.

Books by Professionals

Linda G. Kase, LMFT, LCSW-r Books

The Parental Alienation Syndrome
By Linda J. Gottlieb Kase
BOOK REVIEW BY WILLIAM BERNET

In this thought-provoking book, Ms.Gottlieb attempts to resolve the controversies surrounding Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) by providing substantial empirical evidence from her treatment cases in support of the eight symptoms which child psychiatrist, Richard Gardner, had identified as occurring in the PAS child, and she further exemplifies the commonality of the alienating maneuvers among the alienating parents. The author redefines the typically-held characterization of the parents’ relationship as portrayed in the pertinent literature and accepted by most PAS-aware professionals. Numerous case examples are explored: horrific tales of manufactured child abuse; referrals to child protective services (CPS) resulting in suspension of visits between targeted parents and their children; meritless reports to police alleging domestic violence in support of orders of protection which slander and stigmatize targeted parents; exclusionary tactics preventing targeted parents’

involvement in their children’s medical, educational, social lives and activities; and depletion of targeted parents’ resources due to legal fees required to defend himself/herself and to obtain judicial enforcement of parental rights. Ms. Gottlieb methodically documents that PAS is a form of emotional child abuse of the severest kind. The author provides an unprecedented number of treatment summaries, which demonstrate the effectiveness of structural family therapy in treating the PAS family. To further elucidate the subject, the author interviewed several matrimonial attorneys, Law Guardians, and forensic evaluators regarding their experiences with PAS, and she incorporated their thoughts into her recommendations as to how the mental health and judicial communities should resolve this situation in the best interests of the child. “New Rules” are suggested which encourage a collaborative rather than an adversarial approach to child custody. This book will be an

excellent resource for parents who are divorcing or are in conflict, for adult-child victims of PAS, for mature children of divorcing parents, for judges, for Law Guardians, for matrimonial attorneys, for therapists, for child protective personnel, for law enforcement– and for the professional rescuer who believes that a child must be saved from a parent.
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Books by Baker, Fine and Sauber

Amy has many more books than are listed below. Please go to http://www.amyjlbaker.com for a complete selection of her work. Thanks.

Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties that Bind
What happens to children who are manipulated by one parent to turn against the other? Do these children ever figure it out and reconcile with their "lost" parent?

Adult Children of Parent Alienation Syndrome presents answers based on research interviews with 40 adults who were alienated from a parent as a child.

Beyond the High Road - Advice for Targeted Parents
eBook by Amy Baker and Paul Fine
Dr. Baker is pleased to offer advice for targeted parents. The e-book is titled "Beyond the High Road" and is available for direct purchase for $9.95.

This e-book provides you with specific advice for handling 17 of the most common parental alienation strategies.

http://www.amyjlbaker.com/index.html Scroll to the bottom of the page to purchase.

Working with Alienated Children and Families:A Clinical Guidebook
Working with alienated children and families: A clinical guidebook" edited by Amy J.L. Baker and S. Richard Sauber, published by Routledge press.

The 13 chapters in this guidebook provide mental health practitioners with a range of tools and strategies for working with families affected by alienation.

Clawar and Rivilin's Book

This is the 2nd Edition of this book.

In Children Held Hostage, Stanley Clawar and Brynne Rivlin use important new research involving over 1,000 families to demonstrate that children can and are being used by parents in the divorce battle. Their research shows how negative actions by parents toward their children show up in court proceedings where children testify or are questioned by mental health professionals. The major issue in confronting this problem of programmed and brainwashed children has been identification of a child alienated by one parent against the other; proving it in court; and then finding a solution that not only works, but that a court will buy into. The updated edition of Children Held Hostage explains these issues in detail, with practice-focused explanations on every step in the process. The authors offer further insights into gender issues and differences. Other new material includes a social-psychological profile of programmers and brainwashers; identification of the most commonly asked questions by judges, target parents, lawyers and children; an expanded social explanation to the causes, impact, and interventions; development of an abductor profile; charts to visualize key findings and processes; and much more.

Dr. Warshak's Book

Divorce Poison: How to Protect Your Family from Bad-mouthing and Brainwashing
In this classic guide to preventing & overcoming parental alienation, Dr. Warshak helps parents shield children from the crossfire of divorce and separation.Your ex-spouse is bad-mouthing you to your children, perhaps even trying to turn them against you.

If you handle the situation ineffectively, you could lose your children's respect, their affections—even, in extreme cases, lose contact with them.

The conventional advice is to do nothing for fear that any response could result in greater injury to the children.

But with twenty-five years of helping families, Dr. Richard Warshak is convinced that a passive approach just leaves parents feeling helpless. And the damage to children is considerable, particularly when warring parents enlist children as allies in the battle. The problems range from tainted parent-child relationships, in which children are disrespectful or reluctant to show their affection, to a disturbance in which children virtually disown one of their parents and all the relatives on that side of the family.

Divorce Poison offers specific advice to protect children from the results of their parents' animosity. In it, you will learn how to: • respond when your children join forces with your ex
• react if your children refuse to see you
• answer rude and hateful behavior
• insulate children from the harmful effects of bad-mouthing
• identify and correct your own contributions to parent-child conflicts
• defend against false accusations of brainwashing
• choose the best therapist and lawyer
• reconcile with children after years of estrangement
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Books on PAS in Other Languages

Additional Book Resources
by PASG's William Bernet

Professor Nelson Zicavo Martínez has just published an edited book, Parentalidad y divorcio: (des)encuentros en la Familia latinoamericana (Parenting and Divorce: (Dis)encounters in the Latin American Family. Nelson is in the Psychology Department at the Universidad del Bío-Bío, Chillán, Chile.

This new book has chapters written by authors from Argentina, Brazil, Chile, Costa Rica, Cuba, Mexico, and Paraguay. The book is in Spanish, but there are English abstracts for each chapter, which pertain to divorce, child custody, parental alienation, and related topics.

PASG - Parental Alienation Study Group via William Bernet has put together a very comprehensive list of books on PAS. If you cannot find what you want here, please go to http://mc.vanderbilt.edu/pasg/

Books by Parents for Parents

Legal Books

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This book is written from a realistic perspective and addresses the legal issues most likely to affect you at some point. Learn how to fight a speeding ticket, handle small claims, resolve landlord-tenant issues, and more, despite our wildly corrupt courts.

Now the #1-rated legal guide for Americans on Amazon.com.
Foreword by Dr. Ron Paul

Will you be prepared, not if, but when the legal system strikes?

Many parents have stories to tell!
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Books for Working with Children

How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Recommended by a School Principal. To purchase directly from the authors click the link below.
http://fabermazlish.3dcartstores.com/How-to-Talk-So-Kids-Will-Listen-Listen-So-Kids-Will-Talk_p_11.html

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There are so many books out there by Parents and For Parents of Alienation. While we would like to list them all, it is not probably possible. But I will list them as they are sent to me.

Where Have All Our Daughter's Gone
$19.95

Mitchell Bellison always had an agenda. As a college student at the University of Florida, he didn’t let the fact he lived in a trailer deter him from getting what he wanted. Now, with intelligence and looks, he cunningly charms his way into the life–and arms–of unsuspecting Southern belle Kate Canterfield. Mitchell plays his part to perfection, but it isn’t long after their marriage that Kate begins to see his facade crumble and the abuse begins. Still, due to her upbringing, Kate feels obliged to do her best and fix what’s wrong, no questions asked. With money and power as an attorney, Mitchell eventually decides he no longer needs Kate in his life, and embarks upon a journey of self-satisfaction. Kate thinks it is enough she escaped an abusive marriage, but she can never totally break free of his control now that they share three daughters.
Where Have All Our Daughters Gone is a story of contrasts from love and compassion to narcissistic revenge and resilience, set against a backdrop of the wealth and privilege of Naples, Florida to the quiet charm of the Southern Low Country of South Carolina. Kate’s is a story of compassion, resilience, and survival against the odds.

Children's Books & Movies

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Amos, Janine. Divorce, NYC, NY, Windmill Books, 2010 Ages 4-8/9

Adams, Eric j. and Kathleen Adams, L.C.S.W. On the Day His Daddy Left, Morton Grove, IL, Albert Whitman and Company, 2000. Ages 3-6

Baker, Amy J. I Don’t Want To Choose! A workbook for kids ages 9-14, but might be alterable for younger and older kids.

Brown, Laurene Krasny, and Marc Brown. Dinosaurs Divorce, Boston: Atlantic Monthly Press, 1986. Ages 3-5

Bruce, Becca & Connor Maloney, 10 Tips to Surviving Your Parents Divorce. A coloring book by kids for kids. 2012? Ages 3-10 possibly older. http://wondertwinsunited.com

Buscemi, Karen. Split In Two: Keeping it Together When Your Parents Live Apart March 1, 2009, Pre-teen to Teenager. Possibly as young as 10.

Ford, Melanie, Annie & Steven. My Parents are Divorced Too: A Book For Kids By Kids, 2nd Edition, Washington, DC: Imagination Press, 2006. Ages 8-14

Gottlieb, Daniel, Ph.D, Listen To Me!!! Your Child and Your Divorce, Tel-Aviv, Israel, Contento De Semrik, 2012. Almost any age.

Gray, Kes. Mom and Dad Glue, Hauppge, NY: Barron’s Educational Series, Inc. 2009. Ages 18 months-5.

Grunsell, Angela. Let’s Talk About Divorce, New York, NY: Aladdin Books Ltd. 1989. Ages 5-9

Higgins, Melissa. Weekends with Dad, What to Expect When Your Parents Divorce, North Mankato, MN, Picture Window Books, 2012. Ages 3-6, maybe a little older

Kruger Tietz, Peggy, Ph.D. Yell and Shout Cry and Pout: A Kid’s Guide to Feelings. Self-Published, 2012. Ages 2-?. Very good short book that quickly gets to the heart of feelings.

Levins, Sandra. Was It the Chocolate Pudding? A story for little kids about divorce. Washington, D.C.: Magination Press, 2005. Ages 2-6. Notes to Parents are also good.

McCloud, Carol. Have You Filled a Bucket Today? A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids – 2006, Ages young at least 13 but could possibly be used to age 18 or older. Additional info at bucketfillers101.com

Schmitz, Tamara. Standing on My Own Two Feet. New York, NY: Penguin Books, 2008. Ages 1-4