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    First, we are so sorry you are a going through this.  Next, some questions that maybe redundant:
    1. Where do you reside?
    2. Where is the case out of if different than where you reside?
    3. Do you still see your child/ren?  And if so, what are the visits like? Also, ages of the child or children?
    4. What are the present custody orders?
    5. When did you get divorced/separated?  Was there alienation going on before this?
    6. Are there any significant others like BF or GF?  When did they come into the picture?
    7. How did you hear about us?
    8. If you would like to assist with your Local area Chapter of PASI, let us know.

    We strongly recommend that all member clients be in therapy with a trauma therapist who also has extensive education in coercive control and parental alienation.

    This is how to a chronology using short simple one sentence of the chronological events.  It should look something like the below.  The key is to include all the events that have transpired since the problems began.  Things like new BF/GF is important.  Things like deaths or tragic incidents are important.  Denials of access to visitation, medical, educational and so on are important.  All court and mediation and other legal events are important especially in context with behaviors before and after them.

    01-02-2000:  Met or Married NAME
    02-02-2001: First child born, then list all other children born with their dates
    03-20-2002: List any life events such as close family or friends deaths, court issues, other events.  Make sure everything is chronological.
    04-23-2005: Separated - Divorced
    05-28-2006: Denied access, Children refused to come, Not notified of medical appointments, blocked from school records and communications with school, doctors etc.
    06-21-2007:  List all dates of court appearances and what happened in once sentence.  List any pre and post events that happened to these court events such as if you are denied visitation, but the week before court all of a sudden she allows you to see them.  Or visa versa, you win in court and your kids now come to you vitriol and angry and aggressive. 

    Then Use a color code of the chronology to designate the following.      Provide the color key with this as well.
    Blue = No visitation issues.
    Green = Visitation issue at first but calmed down
    Orange = Visitation issues with rudeness and so on
    Red = Visitation never occurred.
    Purple = Medical Neglect
    Yellow = Education Neglect
    Pink = etc.
    Black = Court Dates, mediations, depositions, deaths, job losses or other traumatic events

    Lastly, we strongly suggest becoming a member of the nonprofit so you can access our private closed support groups internationally and locally as well as get notifications on webinars.  It is dirt cheap at $25 once a year.  Go to the following webpage of our site and click the Parents and Extended Family link. https://www.pas-intervention.org/membership.html  With the membership, our professionals list is free, as is our Local & International online support group.

    For additional intensive coaching, consulting and support, there is a $50 an hour consulting fee whether over the phone or in person on all cases or if extensive email exchanges are needed.  This helps to pay for our employees time and resources.

    Regards,
    Joani
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