Narcissism and the Aggressive Alienator

Since 1996, I have been working with families of psychological abuse.  And the one thing that stands out is the consistent pattern of behavior by the aggressive alienator.  They are almost always Narcissists.  Narcissists have extreme low self-esteem and must be in total control.  They cannot be outdone and if they are, it enrages them further, especially when it comes to their possessions or children.
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Articles on Narcissism

Dr Erica Hepper - Lecturer in Personality/Social Psychology
https://www.surrey.ac.uk/psychology/people/dr_erica_hepper/

Professor Constantine Sedikides BA, MA, PhD - University of Southampton - Social and personality psychology research.
https://www.southampton.ac.uk/psychology/about/staff/cs2.page

The Vindictive Narcissist
Joseph Burgo in
Relationship Issues
Shame/Narcissism
http://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/the-vindictive-narcissist/

University of Surrey- Psychology research breakthrough suggests narcissists are capable of empathy.
https://www.surrey.ac.uk/features/psychology-research-breakthrough-suggests-narcissists-are-capable-empathy

The vindictive cycle of abuse to manipulative and unbalance you, keep you trapped and controlled,  erases your personality and self worth.  Then, if  that is not  enough the abuser attemps to destroy your reputuation. When the abuser has finished with you, then the abuser is able to  move on to their next victim.

Mental Health Disorders

The British Psychological Society
https://www.bps.org.uk/

Royal College of Psychiatrists. Information on Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia and more. A full A - Z list is available.
http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/healthadvice.aspx

Peter Kinderman PhD Professor of Clinical Psychology blog
http://peterkinderman.blogspot.co.uk/2012/12/a-more-humane-approach-to-mental-health_24.html

A Psychological Model of Mental Disorder
https://livrepository.liverpool.ac.uk/3007724/4/Harvard_paper_for_mooc.pdf

US National Library of Medicine. National Institute of Health
Qualitative study concerning the influence of implicit models of mental disorders
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12614705

World Health Organisation Report, Department of Mental Health
http://www.who.int/mental_health/evidence/en/promoting_mhh.pdf

http://www.apa.org/pubs/highlights/podcasts/episode-02.aspx

Narcissism & MH Research

Narcissistic Abuse and Parental Alienation Research & Recovery Centre run by Sarah Squires
​http://naparrc.com
www.youtube.com/c/thenurturingcoach

Maryland Psychiatric Research Centre
Childhood Adversities increase the risk of Psychosis. A meta-analysis of patient-control, prospective- and cross-sectional cohort studies
https://academic.oup.com/schizophreniabulletin/article/38/4/661/1870563

(CPN) Critical Psychiatry Network is primarily for psychiatrists, psychiatric trainees and medical students with an interest in psychiatry
CPN Conference 2017
http://www.criticalpsychiatry.co.uk/

(NCMH) National Centre for Mental Health - Learn more about what causes these problems
http://www.ncmh.info/

(HHMI) Howard Hughes Medical Institute - Power of individuals to advance science through research and science education
http://www.hhmi.org/

https://www.simplypsychology.org/a-level-stress.html

Mental Health Support

(CBT) Cognitive Behaviour Therapy
https://www.online-therapy.com/cbt
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-20625639

(CEBP) Councel for Evidence Based Psychiatry - 24 hour helpline to support people trying to withdraw from prescribed drugs
http://cepuk.org/

Literature for Mental Health
Bibliotherapy is becoming increasingly popular supports treatment of stress, anxiety, depression, C-PTSD and other conditions through slow reading
https://relit.org.uk/

MIND for better mental health, Information & Support
https://www.mind.org.uk/
https://youngminds.org.uk/what-we-do/commission-us/

Moodzone, Mental Health Helplines.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines/

The British Pychological Society
Concern at the over-medicalization of mental disorders
https://thepsychologist.bps.org.uk/volume-18/edition-10/bio-bio-bio-model-madness
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/

The Medical Model
https://www.simplypsychology.org/medical-model.html

Forgiveness or Acceptance?

Adulthood with a Narcisssitic Parent resources by Regina Stone-Grover
https://families.media/adulthood-with-a-narcissistic-parent-part-two?_ga=2.234559838.1773062209.1515167645-138365773.1505698814

After Narcissistic Abuse posted by Ana
https://afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/

Forgiveness or Acceptance of the Narcissist by Regina Stone-Grover
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/tina-swithin/forgiveness-is-overrated-_b_2442700.html

Additional Articles by Regina Stone-Grover can be found at:
https://vocal.media/authors/regina-stone-grover

NEF - econmics as if people on the planet mattered
http://b.3cdn.net/nefoundation/8984c5089d5c2285ee_t4m6bhqq5.pdf

Psych Central - The Recovery Expert by Sharie Stines, Psy.D
https://psychcentral.com/

Words of Wisdom on Narcissism